“Sonkei” – 尊敬 (そんけい): meaning ‘respect’ in Japanese.

 

Posted by ADAM CARTER on AUG 25, 2023

“Sonkei” – 尊敬 (そんけい): meaning ‘respect’ in Japanese.

 

The martial arts, beyond being a physical discipline, are a way of life. They embody a code of conduct that transcends the boundaries of the training hall and extends into everyday life.

At the core of this code is ‘respect’ – a fundamental principle that forms the foundation of all martial arts.

“Sonkei” – 尊敬 (そんけい): meaning ‘respect’ in Japanese.

尊: a kanji character widely used to mean dignity.
敬: a kanji character widely used to mean respect or the act of respecting.

From these two kanji characters, we can understand that “sonkei” literally means ‘dignity and respect’.

One of the first lessons in martial arts is the respect shown to the instructor or sensei. The instructor represents the accumulation of knowledge and experience. Their role is not merely to teach techniques but to instill values such as self-discipline, humility, and integrity.

Students bow to their instructor as a sign of respect before and after each class, acknowledging the wisdom and guidance they provide. This respect teaches students to be receptive to knowledge and to appreciate the importance of mentorship in their martial arts journey.

Respect should extend to fellow practitioners within the martial arts community too. Training partners in the dojo are not opponents to be defeated, but allies in the pursuit of self-improvement. Mutual respect is essential for creating a safe and supportive environment where students can learn and grow.

Practitioners are taught to control their power and techniques, never to use them to harm or injure needlessly. This respect for fellow practitioners promotes camaraderie, fosters trust, and ensures that the dojo remains a place of personal development rather than a battleground.

Often deeply rooted in tradition and culture, many martial arts have centuries-old histories, and their rituals and customs reflect this heritage. Respect for these traditions is not a mere formality; it is an acknowledgment of the art’s rich lineage and the dedication of those who came before. Learning and practicing martial arts is, in essence, paying homage to the masters and preserving their legacy.

While respect for others is integral to martial arts, self-respect is equally important. Martial arts emphasize the development of not only physical but also mental and emotional strength. This self-respect translates into self-confidence and a positive self-image, which can be transformative not only in the dojo, but also in one’s personal and professional life.

The respect instilled in martial arts transcends the training hall. It influences how practitioners interact with the world around them. It becomes a way of life, shaping character and behavior. In everyday life, martial artists are more likely to show courtesy and consideration to others, to handle conflicts calmly and respectfully, and to approach challenges with self-discipline and determination.

When respect is gone in any context, it signifies a breakdown in the fundamental acknowledgment of the worth, dignity, and boundaries of individuals or principles. Imagine what it is like when you are told you’re are worthless, to remove yourself from something you have dedicated yourself to for many years. When respect is gone, trust is lost, and the foundation of any relationship begins to crumble.

Respect begins with the understanding that every individual, regardless of their skill level or experience, is deserving of dignity. It’s about acknowledging the efforts and dedication, that each practitioner brings to their training journey.

The essence of respect in martial arts lies in the recognition of the intrinsic worth of every person, the humility to learn from others, and the commitment to embody the virtues of martial philosophy, both on and off the training mat.

Image of Funakoshi Gichin presenting Otsuka Hiranori with dan rank.