Don’t confuse tournament prowess with real-world combat.

 

Posted by ADAM CARTER on FEB 19, 2024

Don’t confuse tournament prowess with real-world combat.

 

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Do you consider yourself someone who rises to challenges head-on?

While strength and courage are valuable traits, it’s crucial to understand that fighting shouldn’t be the first resort in resolving conflict.

Street fights are unpredictable and fraught with dangers: hidden weapons, unexpected allies, and potentially fatal environmental hazards. Even a seemingly harmless punch can lead to serious injuries, legal repercussions, and lasting emotional scars.

Remember, a fight isn’t worth putting yourself or others at risk. Your anger, however justified, doesn’t outweigh the potential consequences.

If you’ve been taught and conditioned to “fight first,” let’s challenge that!

True strength lies in navigating tough situations strategically, not just physically. A skilled practitioner understands that avoidance is often the best defense.

So, don’t confuse tournament prowess with real-world combat. Trophies don’t protect lives. Just because you can fight in the dojo or in a competition doesn’t mean you should.

Street fights, that’s what they are if you agree to fight someone, it’s not self-defense, they are far removed from organized, rule-bound matches. It’s about survival, not points. Choosing to walk away isn’t cowardice; it’s wisdom. It means prioritizing safety and well-being for everyone involved.

Your mind is your most powerful weapon, practice de-escalation, assertive communication, and understand calm amidst the tension. Remember, fighting isn’t your only option.

Conflict resolution is a complex skill. Be open to learning, growing, and choosing the path that leads to safety.

Don’t let your ego write your story. Stepping away from a potential fight isn’t cowardice, it’s self-preservation. True courage lies in choosing the harder path, the path that protects yourself and others from harm.