"The only person you are destined to become is the person you decide to be." - Ralph Waldo Emerson

 

Posted by ADAM CARTER on MAY 03, 2024

"The only person you are destined to become is the person you decide to be." - Ralph Waldo Emerson

 

(Approx 2 minute 15 second read)

The internet age has brought many conveniences, but it’s also fostered a culture of “Get it Now” Mentality.

We see this in the way some people online demand information without a simple hello or a thank you. It’s as if they view the internet as a vending machine, expecting instant answers without any acknowledgment of the person providing them.

This lack of basic courtesy can be frustrating and dehumanizing, especially for those on the receiving end.

This mentality, unfortunately, can sometimes seep into the martial arts world as well. Many students today seem to be in a rush to reach the end of their journey. They crave quick fixes and instant results, mirroring the “get it now” attitude.

A comment on one of my articles said; “I haven’t read your article but going by the image….” – So basically commenting without reading, this happens much more than you would imagine.

This shortcut mentality can unfortunately extend to some martial arts practice as well. Many students seek quick fixes, quick answers. But that’s not the way, true proficiency comes from a commitment to diligent study.

Sharing knowledge is a cornerstone of the martial arts, a way to give back. However, to share effectively, you must also be a dedicated learner. Teachers lay the foundation, but the journey of improvement rests on your own shoulders.

The martial arts world, like many others, can be filled with superficial approaches. But there’s no shortcut to quality learning.

Karate knowledge and skill grows step by step. Each level builds upon the one before, requiring dedication to understand and integrate the concepts.

Someone said to me recently; “why practice karate, it takes too long.”

It’s true, some combat sports might offer a quicker path to developing specific fighting skills. But karate isn’t solely about physical prowess. It’s a discipline that cultivates patience, focus, and mental fortitude alongside physical ability.

It’s about the journey that unfolds alongside the development of technique. While other disciplines might offer a faster path to fighting competency, karate provides a something deeper, both inside and outside the dojo.

The process of learning challenging material with a good teacher is inherently rewarding. Mastering the principles and techniques taught in the dojo brings a deep sense of accomplishment, and for some, pride too. There’s no substitute for the satisfaction of genuine effort and progress.

Ultimately, learning is a personal triumph. When you conquer a difficult skill, you know you’ve earned it. You’re ready for the next challenge, better equipped to excel. And most importantly, you know you did it the right way, without cutting corners.

The old masters often spoke of dedicating their lives to their karate. This dedication extends beyond technique and being a great fighter. It’s about constant self-improvement as a human being, developing self-discipline, respect, and self-control. These qualities are reflected in our everyday behavior, as the saying goes, “Manners maketh man.” The way you treat others is a testament to the person you are becoming.

So, put in the work, don’t seek shortcuts and let your actions speak for themselves.