Posted by ADAM CARTER on NOV 20, 2024
Staying the Course: Making Martial Arts a Part of Who You Are.
(Approx 2 minute read)
Losing interest in martial arts training happens to everyone at some point. It’s inevitable, and there are countless reasons why.
How often have you heard someone say, “I used to do karate”? The decision to stop often happens in an instant. Sadly, years of hard work can be undone just as quickly.
It starts innocently: skipping one class, then another. Maybe just for a week or two. No big deal, right? Wrong.
You’ve unknowingly started a habit – a destructive one. The more you skip, the easier it becomes to justify skipping again. Slowly but surely, excuses replace commitment, and training fades into the background.
For many, the martial arts are just a hobby. Those of us who’ve stuck with it like to call it “a way of life” – a philosophy. But, let’s be honest: that isn’t true for most people.
Truly committed students are rare these days. Yes, you might find the occasional exception – like a young woman who once trained at my dojo. She never missed a class. Her father drove her to training, but one day, with temperatures soaring into the high 90s, he couldn’t take her. Did she skip training? No. She got on her bike, cycled the five miles to the dojo, trained, and then cycled home. That’s the kind of passion and dedication that’s inspiring.
Then there are others – the ones who are always late, always canceling, often for trivial reasons. How often have you heard a student cancel karate because they have something like a “how-to-bake-a-cake” class?
Everyone has their reasons for practicing, and life isn’t the same for everyone. But here’s the truth: there’s no secret to staying motivated in your training.
Passion is the spark, but habit is the fuel that keeps the fire burning. A hobby is something you do when you have the time; a passion is something you make time for – even when it’s inconvenient.
Make time for it. Prioritize training as a way of life – if you’re bogged down by responsibilities, commitments and problems, find solutions, don’t make excuses.
How you think determines how you act. If you see karate as optional, it will be. But if you view yourself as a martial artist, you’ll approach training as a fundamental part of who you are.
It’s easy to train when life is smooth. The real test comes when things are hard – when you’re tired, stressed, or distracted. That’s when training matters most.
Turn your passion into self-discipline. Train consistently, even when you don’t feel like it, until it becomes second nature. This is the martial mindset: seeing training as an integral part of your life, not just a box to tick when it’s convenient.
Make it part of who you are. Be proud of yourself as a martial artist, not a hobbyist.
Do it every time, in every instance, until it becomes a good habit. This is the martial mindset – let it define how you approach training and shape how you face life’s challenges.
Written by Adam Carter – Shuri Dojo